{"id":3480,"date":"2009-03-11T11:58:48","date_gmt":"2009-03-11T10:58:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lyonbondyblog.fr\/LBB\/?p=3480"},"modified":"2013-08-06T11:59:51","modified_gmt":"2013-08-06T09:59:51","slug":"les-dessous-des-mariages-religieux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lyonbondyblog.fr\/LBB\/les-dessous-des-mariages-religieux\/","title":{"rendered":"Les dessous des mariages religieux"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Se marier n\u2019est pas qu\u2019une question de robe, de chaussures, de coiffures et de d\u00e9co fleurie\u2026 Pour certains, c\u2019est aussi une question de religion, avec, parfois, \u00e0 la cl\u00e9, une s\u00e9rieuse pr\u00e9paration.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Le printemps arrive et avec lui son lot de mariages en tout genre. Les mariages civils tout d\u2019abord (les seuls \u00e0 avoir une valeur juridique). Mais aussi les mariages religieux, qu\u2019ils soient chr\u00e9tiens, juifs ou musulmans. Souvent bien diff\u00e9rentes de la c\u00e9r\u00e9monie qu\u2019officie M. Le Maire, ces unions religieuses peuvent parfois se transformer en v\u00e9ritable rite de passage. Dans la religion catholique ou \u00e9vang\u00e9lique, par exemple, pas de mariage sans pr\u00e9paration. Avant le grand Jour, le couple chr\u00e9tien (ou \u00e0 moiti\u00e9 chr\u00e9tien), doit s\u2019engager \u00e0 rencontrer un pr\u00eatre \u00e0 5 ou 6 reprises au cours des mois pr\u00e9c\u00e9dant la c\u00e9r\u00e9monie.<\/p>\n<p>Au cours de ces entretiens, ils devront signer une \u00ab\u00a0d\u00e9claration d\u2019intention\u00a0\u00bb. Dans cette \u00ab\u00a0d\u00e9claration\u00a0\u00bb, ces derniers s\u2019engagent notamment\u00a0 \u00e0 la fid\u00e9lit\u00e9, \u00e0 la v\u00e9rit\u00e9, \u00e0 la procr\u00e9ation. En bref, si vous ne voulez pas d\u2019enfants, impossible de se marier \u00e0 l\u2019Eglise. Place ensuite \u00e0 de profondes r\u00e9flexions sur le couple, l\u2019engagement, le pardon, le dialogue et\u2026 la sexualit\u00e9\u00a0! \u00ab\u00a0<i>C\u2019est un peu comme une th\u00e9rapie de couple, sauf que vous n\u2019avez pas en face de vous un psy ou un sexologue mais un homme d\u2019Eglise\u00a0!<\/i>\u00a0\u00bb, souligne en souriant Emilie, catholique non pratiquante.\u00a0 Mieux, chez les \u00e9vang\u00e9liques, les fianc\u00e9s doivent, durant pr\u00e8s de 6 mois, \u00e0 raison d\u2019une heure par semaine, assister \u00e0 des ateliers de couple. \u00ab\u00a0<i>Les hommes et les femmes sont ensemble, on nous apprend comment bien communiquer, comment vivre au quotidien. Les hommes ont m\u00eame des cours de cuisine\u00a0!<\/i>\u00a0\u00bb, explique Soraya, d\u2019origine br\u00e9silienne.<br \/>\nRevue et corrig\u00e9e avec le nombre croissant de divorces en France, cette pr\u00e9paration au mariage est, peut-\u00eatre aussi, selon Katrin de confession juive, \u00ab\u00a0<i>une fa\u00e7on pour les pr\u00eatres de savoir \u00e0 qui ils ont affaire. N\u2019oublions pas que chez les catholiques, un pr\u00eatre peut \u00eatre amen\u00e9 \u00e0 marier un couple qu\u2019il ne conna\u00eet pas du tout.\u00a0<\/i>\u00bb En revanche, chez les juifs, cette pr\u00e9paration n\u2019existe pas. Le rabbin ne peut pas c\u00e9l\u00e9brer une union si l\u2019un des deux fianc\u00e9s n\u2019est pas juif et conna\u00eet, en r\u00e8gle g\u00e9n\u00e9rale, le couple. \u00ab<i>\u00a0On estime que l\u2019apprentissage a \u00e9t\u00e9 fait tout au long de la vie et qu\u2019il n\u2019y a donc pas besoin de r\u00e9p\u00e9ter les fondamentaux.\u00a0<\/i>\u00bb, souligne Katrin.<br \/>\nIdem chez les musulmans, o\u00f9 le mariage religieux ne se perp\u00e9tue que par \u00abtradition, pour faire plaisir aux parents\u00a0\u00bb, selon Azzedine. \u00ab\u00a0<i>En France, les musulmans font passer le mariage civil avant tout. C\u2019est le seul reconnu par les autorit\u00e9s civiles. Une fois le contrat sign\u00e9 devant M.le Maire, si vous voulez vous s\u00e9parer, il faudra forc\u00e9ment passer par le divorce, qui est un acte long et parfois douloureux. On estime donc qu\u2019un couple qui choisit de se marier civilement le fait de fa\u00e7on r\u00e9fl\u00e9chie et pas sur un coup de t\u00eate\u00a0!\u00a0<\/i>\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Finalement, pr\u00e9paration ou pas, le mariage religieux n\u2019est pas forc\u00e9ment un gage d\u2019amour \u00e9ternel. Peut-\u00eatre y a-t-il moins de divorce chez les juifs, les catholiques ou les musulmans\u2026 Reste qu\u2019en France, le nombre de divorce est pass\u00e9 de 5 % en 1914 \u00e0 <strong>45<\/strong>\u00a0% apr\u00e8s 2000. * (chiffre SOS Papa.net 2005). \u00ab\u00a0<i>Cela est simplement le reflet de notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9. Avant les gens n\u2019avaient pas le choix, aujourd\u2019hui oui\u00a0! Selon moi, chacun est libre de se marier religieusement mais la laicit\u00e9 doit rester prioritaire.<\/i>\u00a0\u00bb conclue Azzedine.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pour aller plus loin\u00a0:\u00a0<\/b><br \/>\nLire l&rsquo;article <a href=\"http:\/\/20minutes.lyonbondyblog.fr\/news\/attention-la-facture-il-y-a-du-mariage-dans-l-air\">\u00ab\u00a0Attention la facture, y a du mariage dans l&rsquo;air\u00a0\u00bb<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Auteur : Pascale Lagahe<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Se marier n\u2019est pas qu\u2019une question de robe, de chaussures, de coiffures et de d\u00e9co fleurie\u2026 Pour certains, c\u2019est aussi une question de religion, avec, &hellip; <!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on wp_trim_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on wp_trim_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3480","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lyon"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v22.8 - 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