{"id":3336,"date":"2009-08-10T13:57:55","date_gmt":"2009-08-10T11:57:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lyonbondyblog.fr\/LBB\/?p=3336"},"modified":"2013-08-02T13:59:16","modified_gmt":"2013-08-02T11:59:16","slug":"homosexualite-dans-les-quartiers-tes-fou-ca-se-dit-pas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lyonbondyblog.fr\/LBB\/homosexualite-dans-les-quartiers-tes-fou-ca-se-dit-pas\/","title":{"rendered":"Homosexualit\u00e9 dans les quartiers : \u00ab T\u2019es fou \u00e7a se dit pas ! \u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Etre gay et \u00ab\u00a0kaira\u00a0\u00bb, c&rsquo;est presque un paradoxe\u2026 Et pourtant malgr\u00e9 tous les clich\u00e9s l\u2019homosexualit\u00e9 existe bien au c\u0153ur des tours. La preuve avec Kamel qui se pr\u00e9sente comme un mec des cit\u00e9s mais qui a du mal \u00e0 accepter son homosexualit\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pas \u00e9vident d\u2019\u00eatre homosexuel et pouvoir l\u2019assumer et encore moins lorsque l\u2019on vient des cit\u00e9s. C\u2019est le pain quotidien de Kamel (pr\u00e9nom d\u2019emprunt), jeune de 25 ans originaire de l\u2019est lyonnais. Il a arr\u00eat\u00e9 l\u2019\u00e9cole \u00e0 16 ans, sans dipl\u00f4me et vogue de stages en formations.<\/p>\n<p>Avec son allure \u00ab\u00a0folklorique\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0: tee-shirt griff\u00e9, bas de jogging et chaussures \u00e0 bulles d\u2019air et son allure de \u00ab\u00a0voyou\u00a0\u00bb, rien de laisse pr\u00e9sager les orientations de ce jeune homme.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00bb <em>Ca vient comme \u00e7a et tu ne te rends pas compte\u00a0\u00bb explique-t-il. \u00ab\u00a0A force de tra\u00eener avec des hommes, c\u2019est venu comme c\u2019est venu. J\u2019ai d\u00e9couvert \u00e7a il y a 10 ans, C\u2019\u00e9tait quand j\u2019\u00e9tais ado. A l\u2019\u00e9poque, il fallait \u00eatre avec une meuf, mais \u00e0 force d\u2019\u00eatre avec des p\u00e9los. C\u2019est entre mecs que j\u2019ai appris la sexualit\u00e9 et puis quand j\u2019ai eu 17 ans, j\u2019ai fait 9 mois de prison. C\u2019est pas \u00e9vident, quand on n\u2019a pas de copine. On a tous des envies et c\u2019est comme \u00e7a que c\u2019est venu\u00a0! J\u2019ai pas \u00e9t\u00e9 viol\u00e9 hein\u00a0!<\/em>\u00a0\u00ab\u00a0.<\/p>\n<p>Personne n\u2019a encore perc\u00e9 le secret de Kamel. \u00a0\u00bb <i>Je reste habill\u00e9 en surv\u00eat, je reste le m\u00eame. Mais le truc c\u2019est qu&rsquo;avec les filles il faut sortir, avoir des sous. En plus elles ne veulent pas coucher, donc c\u2019est la mis\u00e8re. J\u2019ai d\u00e9j\u00e0 eu des exp\u00e9riences mais c\u2019\u00e9tait vite fait. Y\u2019a personne qui le sait que je suis homo. Pour les plans, \u00e7a se passe sur le net o\u00f9 y\u2019a des annonces. Au moins y\u2019a pas de chichis, t\u2019y vas c\u2019est tout. En tout cas t\u2019es fou jamais je dirai aux gens que je me tape des mecs. Ca se dit pas, c\u2019est perso\u00a0! Et mes parents, ils diraient quoi\u00a0!\u00a0\u00ab\u00a0<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>En effet, c\u2019est perso\u00a0! Le poids de la famille et le regard des autres p\u00e8sent \u00e9norm\u00e9ment et\u00a0encore plus dans un contexte o\u00f9 les parents sont issus de l\u2019immigration. Il ne fait pas bon de venir des cit\u00e9s et \u00eatre gay. L\u2019homophobie a une grande place dans les m\u0153urs des habitants de quartiers. Il est de m\u00eame dans la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 fran\u00e7aise actuelle. Pourtant loin de tous les clich\u00e9s vus \u00e0 la t\u00e9l\u00e9vision, l\u2019homosexualit\u00e9 existe bien dans les quartiers. Ce ne se sont pas les \u00ab\u00a0Cinq experts dans le vent\u00a0\u00bb ou Magloire que vous verrez. D\u2019ailleurs vous ne verrez pas grand-chose car le sujet est tabou.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0<i>Qui sait un jour je me marierai ou j\u2019aurai une famille, mais je m\u2019en fous\u00a0!<\/i>\u00a0\u00a0\u00bb conclut Kamel.\u00a0\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0<i>Il faudra que je me range et que j\u2019arr\u00eate\u00a0\u00ab\u00a0<\/i>. Difficile d\u2019envisager le futur quand on a du mal \u00e0 s\u2019accepter. Qu\u2019on se le dise, l\u2019homosexualit\u00e9 a toujours exist\u00e9 depuis que l\u2019homme est homme et dans toutes les civilisations.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Auteur : Rochdi Chaabnia<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Etre gay et \u00ab\u00a0kaira\u00a0\u00bb, c&rsquo;est presque un paradoxe\u2026 Et pourtant malgr\u00e9 tous les clich\u00e9s l\u2019homosexualit\u00e9 existe bien au c\u0153ur des tours. 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